Tutoring: My Experience
Last year, in high school, I was given the opportunity to tutor an eighth grader in math. I decided, why not? It should not be that hard. It was a much different experience than I thought it would be (not a bad thing!). The reason that I was able to tutor her was because my mom, a fifth grade teacher, had taught her in fifth grade and she contacted my mom to get a tutor. The first day that I went to tutor her, I was very nervous. Me being as shy as I am, was asking myself why in the word did I decide to do this? When she showed me her homework that day, I was extremely nervous that I had forgotten how to do the math that I had once learned in eighth grade, but I remembered! Once we got going on the problems that she was confused with, I figured out ways to try to teach the math differently than she had learned it. Every day that I went to tutor her, it got easier for me, and I believe she was learning better, and improving. I was always there if she did not know a certain way to find an answer, after she had tried to answer it. Two of the important topics that I covered with her were linear equations: y = mx +b and plotting points on a graph (after finding the answers from the equation). I can honestly say that I am glad I remembered these things from middle school because that would have been so embarrassing for me (as her tutor) not knowing the answers. I helped her get ready for her final at the end of the year and I felt that she was much more confident when it came to math by the end of the year than she was in the beginning!
One thing that I learned from tutoring is that you need to have patience! You can not just ask a question, wait three seconds and then just think they do not know it so you blurt out the answer; students will not learn this way! You have to wait until they have completed the problem to the best of their ability, check it over, and go over any mistakes with them. You do not only need to have patience while tutoring, this goes for teaching in general. Tutoring her helped me to realize that I do want to become a teacher. I like helping others to understand something they were previously confused with; it makes me smile when someone gets an answer right that they once had gotten wrong and are very excited about it. I am very glad that I did decide to tutor her because it shaped me. Before it I only thought I wanted to be a teacher because I babysat all the time and I knew I wanted to find an occupation involving children, but after it I realized why. And it is because I want to help students learn and achieve their goals, with a confident attitude. By the way, she was the sweetest girl I could have tutored!